Rachael Kirkconnell Thanks Fans on Instagram After New Vulnerable Interview
Rachael Kirkconnell recently opened up about her breakup with Matt James on Alex Cooper’s Call Her Daddy podcast, sharing emotional insights about their split after four years together.
The stars of ABC’s The Bachelor have split after four years of dating. In 2021, after the season aired, former bachelor Matt James and Rachael Kirkconnell didn’t get engaged but chose to stay together as a couple.
The former Bachelor stars, who chose to stay together in 2021 after the season aired rather than getting engaged, have now officially parted ways. During the interview, Kirkconnell revealed that James announced their breakup just three hours after they split, while she was still on a flight returning to the U.S. from Tokyo.
The influencer’s candid revelations about their relationship resonated deeply with fans, who flooded her social media with messages of support. Shortly after the interview aired, she took to Instagram on January 28 to express her gratitude, writing in her Instagram Story, “Just wanted to say thank you for the love and support. Everything feels scary and discouraging right now but I believe everything happens how it is meant to and I know it will be okay.” She added, “It’s a blessing to be able to feel things and let them hurt. Life is a messy and beautiful thing and I am thankful for all of the ups and downs it brings. Love you guys.”
Amid the public breakup, speculation about James being unfaithful began circulating online. However, Kirkconnell quickly shut down the rumors, firmly stating, “He is not a cheater.” Instead, she suggested that their split stemmed from James’s reluctance to commit long-term.
“He just didn’t want me to end up resenting him by wasting more of my time if it wouldn’t happen,” Kirkconnell told Cooper. “He just said, ‘You’re beautiful, smart, and funny, and you’ll find someone. You’ll find a guy that will love you for you.’ But he just didn’t think that it was him.”
The star’s heartfelt reflections and vulnerability have sparked an outpouring of encouragement from fans. As she navigates this emotional transition, we wish her privacy, healing, and strength in the days ahead.